Students of spoken English often wish for a more complex vocabulary, believing that by using long words in their conversation, others might consider them as being ‘well educated’, and perhaps even a little ‘intelligent’.

Maybe this is true with certain people, but we would like you to consider the argument for striving for ‘simplicity’ and ‘ease of understanding’.

Getting others to understand your ideas, thoughts and feelings is not an easy thing to do; even for native speakers.  By keeping things simple, clear and precise, we encourage greater understanding.

Here’s a quote from the chapter ‘The Case for Short Words’ from Richard Lederer’s book ‘The Miracle of Language’ (page 34).  It gives us some good advice:
“Here is a sound rule: Use small, old words where you can.  If a long word says just what you want to say, do not fear to use it.  But know that our tongue (spoken English) is rich in crisp, brisk, swift, short words.  Make them the spine and the heart of what you speak and write.  Short words are like fast friends.  They will not let you down.”

When considering ‘keywords’ that best express your ideas, thoughts and feelings, try giving preference to ‘small, old words (well known and commonly used words)’, and strive for better understanding.

Photo Credit:  Sebastian Fissore

Finding confidence to speak in English can help you to not only improve your Spoken English in many ways, it can also reduce the number of mistakes you make.
If you show that you are scared of others and worry about how others perceive (see) you, and if you always worry about what is being said after you walk away from a conversation, then you are always going to have a hard time talking with others about anything. Change your attitude about conversation and what others might think, and concentrate instead on the process of conversation which is words, thoughts, feelings, ideas and knowledge.
It is impossible to please all the people all the time. Remember that we all have a right to express ourselves about all topics. Each of us has a different idea and, right or wrong, if we don’t express those ideas, we can’t grow as people. Our ideas or experiences about any given topic need to be shared.
Greeting people confidently with a smile and looking them in the eye is a sure way of encouraging people to converse. By acting with confidence you will gain more confidence, and at the same time you will help others to relax also.