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		<title>Asking Someone their Opinion</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 10:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg and Ivy Cook</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to ask somebody about their opinion on a particular subject,  how would you ask the question? Let&#8217;s imagine that you want to ask someone&#8217;s opinion about  &#8216;surfing&#8217;&#8230; how would you ask their opinion? We&#8217;re sure that you can think of at least one way to put forward the question&#8230; Can you think [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>If you want to ask somebody about their opinion on a particular subject,  how would you ask the question?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s imagine that you want to ask someone&#8217;s opinion about  &#8216;surfing&#8217;&#8230; how would you ask their opinion?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.betterspokenenglish.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/surfing.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-25" title="surfing" src="http://www.betterspokenenglish.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/surfing.jpg" alt="surfing" width="448" height="336" align="left" /></a></p>
<p>We&#8217;re sure that you can think of at least one way to put forward the question&#8230;</p>
<p>Can you think of a few different ways?  How did you go?</p>
<p>Maybe we can help you out -</p>
<p>Here are a few ways you can ask the question.</p>
<p>The usual ways&#8230;</p>
<ol>
<li>What&#8217;s your opinion on surfing?</li>
<li>What are your views on surfing?</li>
<li>What&#8217;s your perspective on surfing?</li>
<li>How do you consider surfing?</li>
</ol>
<p>More casual ways&#8230;</p>
<ol>
<li>What do you think about surfing?</li>
<li>How do you feel about surfing?</li>
<li>What would you say about surfing?</li>
<li>What&#8217;s your take on surfing?</li>
<li>How do you see surfing?</li>
</ol>
<p>Particular kind of opinion&#8230;</p>
<ol>
<li>What&#8217;s your honest opinion about surfing?</li>
<li>Would you tell me your informed opinions on surfing?</li>
<li>Please tell me your personal opinions about surfing&#8230;</li>
</ol>
<p>As you can see,  there are so many ways to ask someone about their  opinion.</p>
<p>Can you think of any other way to ask someone for their opinion  on a subject?</p>
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		<title>What to say when you don&#8217;t understand</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 01:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg and Ivy Cook</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you&#8217;re having a conversation, it&#8217;s common to not understand everything you hear, no matter how focused you are. You need to express this to the other person in a way that is appropriate to the situation. There are many ways to do this, and here we&#8217;ll look at some of the ways you can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a title="Ryan Looks Confused by thewind, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/thewind/2368202706/" target="_blank"><img class="left" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3154/2368202706_d0df9f6c93.jpg" alt="Ryan Looks Confused" width="200" height="175" /></a></p>
<p><span class="drop_cap">W</span>hen you&#8217;re having a conversation, it&#8217;s common to not understand <em>everything </em>you hear, no matter how focused you are.  You need to express this to the other person in a way that is appropriate to the situation.  There are many ways to do this, and here we&#8217;ll look at some of the ways you can do just that.<span id="more-18"></span></p>
<h3>Simple ways</h3>
<p>You can just express your lack of understanding, in a few words.<br />
Here are some examples:</p>
<ol>
<li>Pardon?</li>
<li>Pardon me?</li>
<li>(I) Beg your pardon!</li>
<li>Excuse me?</li>
<li>What did you say?</li>
<li>What was that?</li>
<li>Sorry?</li>
<li>Huh? (informal)</li>
<li>What? (informal and sometimes rude)</li>
</ol>
<h3>Slang</h3>
<ol>
<li>Come again?</li>
<li>Say what?</li>
<li>Pass that by me again?</li>
</ol>
<h3>Slightly longer ways</h3>
<p>Quite often, you might want to say it with a few more words.<br />
Examples:</p>
<ol>
<li>I&#8217;m afraid I don&#8217;t get your idea.</li>
<li>I&#8217;m sorry, I don&#8217;t understand what you just said.</li>
<li>Sorry.  I can&#8217;t follow what you&#8217;re saying to me.</li>
<li>Unfortunately, I can&#8217;t clearly make sense of what you&#8217;re telling me.</li>
<li>I&#8217;m a bit confused.  Do you mind explaining it again?</li>
<li>I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m unclear about what you mean.</li>
<li>Would you mind clarifying what you said? I&#8217;m afraid I don&#8217;t follow.</li>
<li>I simply don&#8217;t catch what you&#8217;re saying.  Sorry.</li>
</ol>
<h3>Using idioms</h3>
<p><a title="Marion... Hum? by jvdc, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jvdc/1692845940/"><img class="left" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2267/1692845940_d9a41b2692.jpg" alt="Marion... Hum?" width="200" height="133" /></a></p>
<p>There are many idioms that express the idea that you don&#8217;t understand. Using idioms can also add colour and interest to your communication.  Just make sure that you know how to use them!<br />
Examples:</p>
<ol>
<li>I&#8217;m afraid that it&#8217;s as clear as mud to me.</li>
<li>It&#8217;s all Greek to me, I&#8217;m afraid.</li>
<li>I&#8217;m sorry.  I can&#8217;t make head or tail of what you&#8217;re saying.</li>
</ol>
<p>We hope you have a better idea about what to say, when you don&#8217;t understand what you hear.  Of course, there are many more ways to express the same thing.  You&#8217;re welcome to add the other ways of expressing this, through the comments section.  Good luck!</p>
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